This is the day that I had originally planned to have all my Christmas shopping done. I have to hang my head in shame. It’s not completely finished yet. However, I am close, and I’ve got what’s been bought so far wrapped. So, it’s not a complete disaster, yet. How are you doing with your preparation?
This time of year can be so stressful, please take some time out and just enjoy your life. Think about what you are grateful for, and what the season is really about. Love. Not what you can buy for someone, just the very fact that you love them. Let’s try to cut the materialism out, and just celebrate each other. My gifts are not going to be expensive this year. I’m giving what’s practical and needed instead. My house is full of “stuff”, and we don’t need any more.
What’s your plan for the holidays? Have you gotten most of it done yet, or are you like me, dragging your feet and feeling overwhelmed? Let me know how you cope with the “stress of the season” in the comments below.
Are you waiting for your life to be perfect? How about those 15 or so pounds you want to lose? Are you waiting to lose them before you do something that you really want to do? Or maybe you’re waiting until you save up the money to “fix up your house” before you have company over?
Thinking like this will do a couple of things. First of all, it will prevent you from enjoying yourself and trying new things. No one else will notice those extra pounds, and besides, if someone does, you probably don’t want to have anything to do with that person anyway. Secondly, most people won’t judge you on your house. If you’ve ever noticed, other people are in the process of saving up for some new things, also.
Joy should be found in the experience of living life. It doesn’t come from everything being perfect. Some of the best meals can be served along with walls that need to be painted and floors that need refurnishing. Those “things” don’t really matter. How you treat others is what matters. While I understand that what we see on social media gives most of us the impression that everyone else lives a “perfect” life, remember that most of those pictures are posed in a certain way so that we only see the “best”, and not the rest. People accentuate the positive and hide the negative.
I’ve talked before about how I find joy in the little things. The sunrises, sunsets, flowers, cold crisp air of fall. Nature brings me joy nearly every day. A positive outlook helps me find my joy. Look for the good in life and it suddenly appears. Even the worst day has something good in it, even if it’s a good cup of coffee. Look for the joy, and it will be there. I promise!
There are some days that just scream out for motivational quotes. I don’t know about you, but usually those days land on Mondays. So, here are some quotes for the start of the week. Enjoy, and I hope they help!
I can get too caught up in the negativity of life, so in order to help myself, and also to help others who may have this problem, I thought that I would devote my post today to happiness quotes. After all, we all need reminders that it’s not only negativity out there.
I made a lot of goals for the month of October, and I have fulfilled some of them. My bathroom closets have been cleaned out and organized. And I have finished one of my most dreaded tasks – the credenza in the dining room has been cleaned out and organized. I have taken numerous bags full of old and useless “stuff” to the dump, and I’ve donated other “stuff” to the Swap Shop. I’ve been able to donate some clothes that are too big (a first!), too. However, the list does indeed go on and on. There is much more to do, and so November will be another dumping and organizing month.
I am feeling a little more optimistic, since there are more organized areas in my house to stand and admire. Yes, I really do that, I open a closet door and tell myself how much better it looks now! But, I can always find room to improve. And, there is still so much more to do!
We are coming up on another NaNoWriMo in November, and I will once again be writing. Also, I have been taking steps to obtain my coaching certificate. So, there is that. How are you doing with your October goals? Let me know in the comments below.
Changing things about your life can be hard. For every step forward, there are times that you feel you’ve gone back two steps. It’s hard to keep up the momentum, but the only way to succeed is to keep going. Here are a few quotes to keep you on your path.