Are you waiting for your life to be perfect? How about those 15 or so pounds you want to lose? Are you waiting to lose them before you do something that you really want to do? Or maybe you’re waiting until you save up the money to “fix up your house” before you have company over?
Thinking like this will do a couple of things. First of all, it will prevent you from enjoying yourself and trying new things. No one else will notice those extra pounds, and besides, if someone does, you probably don’t want to have anything to do with that person anyway. Secondly, most people won’t judge you on your house. If you’ve ever noticed, other people are in the process of saving up for some new things, also.
Joy should be found in the experience of living life. It doesn’t come from everything being perfect. Some of the best meals can be served along with walls that need to be painted and floors that need refurnishing. Those “things” don’t really matter. How you treat others is what matters. While I understand that what we see on social media gives most of us the impression that everyone else lives a “perfect” life, remember that most of those pictures are posed in a certain way so that we only see the “best”, and not the rest. People accentuate the positive and hide the negative.
I’ve talked before about how I find joy in the little things. The sunrises, sunsets, flowers, cold crisp air of fall. Nature brings me joy nearly every day. A positive outlook helps me find my joy. Look for the good in life and it suddenly appears. Even the worst day has something good in it, even if it’s a good cup of coffee. Look for the joy, and it will be there. I promise!
My big goal for November was to win NaNoWriMo. Well, this year it didn’t happen. I just never got around to doing much writing at all. I’ve joined a writing group, and we will be meeting once a month with writing assignments, so hopefully that will help.
Who knew the closet really could be cleaned out?
I have completed the cleaning out and organizing my closet. This actually was a lot of fun, and I found some clothes that I can now fit into. The desk is still in need of much help, and I haven’t replaced the shelf paper in my kitchen cabinets. So, these will need to go on my “to-be-done” list. I am unhappy that I didn’t accomplish all my goals, however, sometimes you just have to accept and keep on putting one foot in front of the other.
How did you do with your November goals? Let me know in the comments below.
I can get too caught up in the negativity of life, so in order to help myself, and also to help others who may have this problem, I thought that I would devote my post today to happiness quotes. After all, we all need reminders that it’s not only negativity out there.
Since I’ve been organizing and giving “stuff” away, I thought that I’d let you in on a secret. Did you know that there is a joy to be found from having your house organized? I know, it sounds too good to be true, right? However, it is in fact, true. Since part of my new plan for life includes such things as: weekly meal planning, including shopping lists; filing paperwork as I open the mail (whoever even heard of that?); keeping my closets in the same organized way as I made them; and most of all, avoiding putting “stuff” on my dining room table, life is actually more pleasant. I don’t feel overwhelmed all the time. Imagine that??
So, while I have some way to go, my house is on its way to becoming a pleasant place. The best thing is, it’s not as stress-producing as it used to be. I don’t feel as “out-of-control” as I did before, and I’m a happier person. Apparently, disarray does me no good. And, believe it or not, I am still a creative person. As a matter of fact, I feel even more creative, since it takes less time to clean when you don’t have to move all the piles of “stuff” before you clean. I can see that being organized is indeed a good thing!
I’ve been looking forward to fall, but our weather has been crazy. First, we’ll have a day or so of fall weather, and then we’re back into the upper 70’s or even the upper 80’s. However, here are a few of the photos that I’ve taken. Hopefully the leaves will change a little more before they all fall off, and I’ll be able to get a few more fall-like pictures.
Changing things about your life can be hard. For every step forward, there are times that you feel you’ve gone back two steps. It’s hard to keep up the momentum, but the only way to succeed is to keep going. Here are a few quotes to keep you on your path.