Life can be pretty nuts. Not only do we have to worry about what’s going on in our own lives, but there is also the human suffering that we all see every day – and a lot of that is not just somewhere “out there” in the world, but here at home.
So, what to do? How can we deal with all of this? The stress of just daily life can be overwhelming. How can we find some form of serenity? There is only so much that we can do as individuals. Yes, there are letters to write and petitions to sign, but how do we find a way to cope with the stresses that need to be dealt with?
Personally, at the end of the day I realize that there is only so much I can do to influence what’s going on “out there”. I try to influence people who I come across each day. If I think that someone who I don’t know looks really nice, I’ll tell them. Just the look of surprise and happiness that I see on their faces lets me know that even though I may have hesitated to give them a compliment, it was the right decision. And, although talking to a total stranger is hard for me, it was worthwhile. So, let me know what you do to throw a little happiness out there in the world. I’d love to hear your stories and advice.
Okay, I can be funny here and say that Yoga does indeed make me cry. When I realize that my lack of flexibility has gotten worse, since I stopped doing Yoga, I can cry with anger. However, I’m talking about that crying that you do when you do a pose. Something that opens up your flexibility and just suddenly you find yourself with tears running down your face. That kind of crying. I was wondering if that was a thing, since it’s happened to me twice this week, so I looked it up and discovered that I really am not insane. It happens to other people too. For some reason the hip-opening positions seem to start the tears for some people.
From what I’ve discovered, people tend to store emotions that they haven’t dealt with in their bodies. Just think of how tense we become in stressful situations, and then we don’t totally relax after the situation has ended. Later, when we stretch, those muscles relax and the tension is released, sometimes in the form of tears. Hip openers seem to hit the tear trigger for me. This is the area of my body where I’m the least flexible, so I assume that my tension resides here as well as my neck and shoulders. However, it’s really easy to relax your neck and shoulders, since all you need to do is flex them, but the hips are more difficult.
While I’ve been doing the Sun Salutation for a while now, I realized that wasn’t enough, since I do tend to have flexibility problems. I was able to find my favorite yoga tape on YouTube recently and hence my tears. I’m so glad that I’ve added to my Yoga routine, and that I’m not insane. If you don’t do Yoga, you should try it since the benefits just keep adding up. If you do cry while doing certain poses, just know that you’re not alone.
I wrote about my surprising Yoga practice, and touched on the peace that I’ve found from just concentrating on my breathing and the poses. But, I thought I would share some of my favorite quotes on this.
I am guilty of worrying too much, or “borrowing trouble” when there is really no reason to. Most of the things I worry about don’t even happen, and then I’m left feeling like I just wasted all this time worrying. Crazy. This is beginning to slowly, oh so slowly change. There is a little spot of calm and peace within me, and when I can access it, I find my anxiety fading.
I hope you all have a peaceful Memorial Day weekend, and encourage you to find peace within yourselves.