As 2018 draws to a close, I thought that I’d review some of the goals that I made almost a year ago. The accomplishment that I’m most proud of is my fitness goals. I’ve worked-out every morning this year, and I’ve walked 960 miles. Next year I intend to build on what I’ve done and improve my fitness level.
My organization skills are still in need refining. I did follow through on my menu planning more weeks than I didn’t, so at least that wasn’t a total wash. My general organization has a long way to go, so it wasn’t a complete success. Also, my fiction writing took second fiddle to my crazy daily haiku writing. Now that the year is over, I won’t be doing that again. I am glad that I pushed myself into writing a daily haiku, it forced me to write when I didn’t want to, and absolutely made me be creative when I simply “wasn’t feeling it”.
The other rather big thing that I wanted to finish this year was getting my business off the ground. That is the one big thing that I didn’t accomplish. I have been reading and studying various books, etc., but it was just a failure. That being said, I have no excuse other than no confidence in myself – something I’ve been working on with my affirmations. I wrote about how important I feel affirmations are, and they have been starting to work for me after all this time of saying them daily.
So, how did you do on your goals? Let me know in the comments below. I look forward to sharing my goals for 2019 soon. Hopefully we will encourage each other!
One of the goals I wanted to accomplish in October was to de-clutter. While I have done some of that, there is a more that needs to be done. I’ve written creatively, but most of that has to do with my daily haiku project. I did manage to finish one 600-word story, so kudos to me. Unfortunately, working on my reading and studying for my business kind of went off the rails – no excuses… oh, believe me I have excuses, but seriously, no excuses. On the positive side I’ve worked out daily, so another goal accomplished – yay me!
Goals for November:
De-clutter dining room and living room.
One hour per day writing creatively.
Get Christmas gifts – no more of that running around like a lunatic in December.
Weekly menu planning.
Work on School and Website.
Have you made a list of your goals for the month? Let me know in the comments below and we can encourage each other over the course of this month.
The above quote is so important in many ways. From the time we are born we seek to please others. As children when our parents were happy than we were happy. Of course, pleasing others can be a wonderful thing. The feelings of joy we get from bringing happiness to others is like no other. But as with many things, this can be taken to the extreme thus causing us unhappiness while we seek to please another. Once we start putting others happiness above our own happiness on a consistent basis, we’ve crossed the line into ignoring ourselves and putting ourselves last, if our own happiness even makes it onto our list.
True lasting happiness come from within. No “other” can make us happy, just as we cannot bring true lasting happiness to another. Look within to find your own happiness.
Here’s a nasty little secret for you – no one is coming to save you. Here’s another one – you’re never going to win the lottery. Yep, if you want that prince on the white horse to come save you, you’re going to be waiting until you’re in the grave. No one is coming. You have to be your own savior.
You know what the worst part of this is? You’re going to have to do the dirty work. That lottery ticket isn’t going to be the “one”, by the way this is especially true if you don’t even buy a lottery ticket, but sometimes fantasize about what you would do if you won. (This is me…I actually do this occasionally). See, we all are looking for a savior.
The problem is that none of us wants to do the work it takes to change our lives. Most of us want to magically wake up in the morning and all the hard work is done, and we’re suddenly living our dream life. That would be great. But it’s not going to happen.
So, what do we do? One of the first things to do is to admit this to yourself. Admit that you’re going to have to do the work. Admit that you are worth it…this is the most important part. You need to feel that you are worth all the hard work. That the life you’ve dreamed of for so long is what you’re worthy of. And then, you need to make a plan, set some goals, and start the work. The only way to fulfill your dreams is to do the work. Be your own savior.
As you may have noticed, I’m not working on all my goals this summer. I’ve got excuses up the yin-yang, but that’s what they are, excuses. I know that but I seem to be addicted to them anyway. This summer has been way too hot and humid for my poor little body, but I’ve been trying to do what I can. Of course, there is a lot more I could do, but summer is for reading, right?
So here are a few goals I want to accomplish before Labor Day.
Continue to work out daily, and keep with the 18 miles walked per week.
Start working on my children’s series.
Continue organizing and getting my household in order.
Finish the linguistic book.
Work on certificate.
What are your goals for the rest of the summer season? Have you all been able to go on vacation this summer? There will be no vacation for us this year, since my husband just started this job in February, but I’m hopeful we’ll be able to go somewhere for a long weekend in March or April. Let me know how you’re doing with your goals. Let’s continue to encourage each other along our paths.
How did you do with your June goals? Have you conquered and are you now standing at the top of your mountain, or are you like me, still struggling to get there? Well, I guess I’ve given you and idea of how well I’ve done with all my June goals. I’ve kept on getting up quite early, so my exercising goal is still going strong. However, I’ve not achieved Tae Bo status yet. Hopefully this month. One of my exercise goals was to walk eighteen miles per week, and that went well. My average mileage was 21 miles per week – so good for me! My fiction writing has not gone very well, with other things taking precedence. I did go to a movie and had some fun as well in June, so that was wonderful!
Here are my July Goals:
Work on coaching certificate.
Write more fiction.
Keep exercising and add some Tae Bo to the mix.
Again, and one of the most important – have some fun!