The 15th of December!

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This is the day that I had originally planned to have all my Christmas shopping done.  I have to hang my head in shame.  It’s not completely finished yet.   However, I am close, and I’ve got what’s been bought so far wrapped.  So, it’s not a complete disaster, yet.  How are you doing with your preparation?

This time of year can be so stressful, please take some time out and just enjoy your life.  Think about what you are grateful for, and what the season is really about.  Love.  Not what you can buy for someone, just the very fact that you love them.  Let’s try to cut the materialism out, and just celebrate each other.  My gifts are not going to be expensive this year.  I’m giving what’s practical and needed instead.  My house is full of “stuff”, and we don’t need any more.

What’s your plan for the holidays?  Have you gotten most of it done yet, or are you like me, dragging your feet and feeling overwhelmed?  Let me know how you cope with the “stress of the season” in the comments below.

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The Perfect Life?

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Are you waiting for your life to be perfect?  How about those 15 or so pounds you want to lose?  Are you waiting to lose them before you do something that you really want to do?  Or maybe you’re waiting until you save up the money to “fix up your house” before you have company over?

Thinking like this will do a couple of things.  First of all, it will prevent you from enjoying yourself and trying new things.  No one else will notice those extra pounds, and besides, if someone does, you probably don’t want to have anything to do with that person anyway.  Secondly, most people won’t judge you on your house.  If you’ve ever noticed, other people are in the process of saving up for some new things, also.

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Joy should be found in the experience of living life.  It doesn’t come from everything being perfect.  Some of the best meals can be served along with walls that need to be painted and floors that need refurnishing.  Those “things” don’t really matter.  How you treat others is what matters.  While I understand that what we see on social media gives most of us the impression that everyone else lives a “perfect” life, remember that most of those pictures are posed in a certain way so that we only see the “best”, and not the rest.  People accentuate the positive and hide the negative.

I’ve talked before about how I find joy in the little things.  The sunrises, sunsets, flowers, cold crisp air of fall.  Nature brings me joy nearly every day.  A positive outlook helps me find my joy.  Look for the good in life and it suddenly appears.  Even the worst day has something good in it, even if it’s a good cup of coffee.  Look for the joy, and it will be there.  I promise!

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December Goals

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Since I really didn’t do so well on my November goals, I’m kind of stymied about setting goals for December.  Maybe they should be just get through the month?  December can be such a fraught time of year it would be easy to simply say that making it through the month would be a worthy goal.  However, I do want to accomplish more than just that.

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So, one goal is that I did join a writing group, so I’ll be needing to make sure that I write for my assignment, so that is a goal.  Another goal is that I want to work on beginning to get my business set up, so I’ll be continuing with that, also.

As far as the big holiday, I really want to get my gifts bought and wrapped by December 15th this year.   And, my final goal for December is that I want to get my act together so that I can go into 2018 with a fresh new outlook along was some healthy new habits.  I’ll let you know more about the specifics as December moves forward.

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What are your goals for December?  Share them in the comments, and we  can encourage each other as the month rolls on.

 

November Goal Review

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My big goal for November was to win NaNoWriMo.  Well, this year it didn’t happen.  I just never got around to doing much writing at all.  I’ve joined a writing group, and we will be meeting once a month with writing assignments, so hopefully that will help.

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Who knew the closet really could be cleaned out?

I have completed the cleaning out and organizing my closet.  This actually was a lot of fun, and I found some clothes that I can now fit into.  The desk is still in need of much help, and I haven’t replaced the shelf paper in my kitchen cabinets.  So, these will need to go on my “to-be-done” list.  I am unhappy that I didn’t accomplish all my goals, however, sometimes you just have to accept and keep on putting one foot in front of the other.

How did you do with your November goals?  Let me know in the comments below.

Take a Breath

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We all know that today marks the beginning of the Christmas Season.  So, along with all the excitement there is way too much worry and stress.  The stress of whether or not people will like what you’ve bought, how the decorations will look, when will the cookies be done, etc. etc.  Not to mention how much in the hole of debt you may or may not want to go.  So, what to do?  Just take a breath.  Decide what is really important about this time of year.  Stop buying things you and others don’t need.  The whole season should be about love, and not more “stuff”.  Calm down and relax.  Try to not get caught up in things that in reality are simply not important.

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Motivation and Positivity – Because Sometimes We Just Need Quotes

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There are some days that just scream out for motivational quotes.  I don’t know about you, but usually those days land on Mondays.  So, here are some quotes for the start of the week.  Enjoy, and I hope they help!

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