This is the day that I had originally planned to have all my Christmas shopping done. I have to hang my head in shame. It’s not completely finished yet. However, I am close, and I’ve got what’s been bought so far wrapped. So, it’s not a complete disaster, yet. How are you doing with your preparation?
This time of year can be so stressful, please take some time out and just enjoy your life. Think about what you are grateful for, and what the season is really about. Love. Not what you can buy for someone, just the very fact that you love them. Let’s try to cut the materialism out, and just celebrate each other. My gifts are not going to be expensive this year. I’m giving what’s practical and needed instead. My house is full of “stuff”, and we don’t need any more.
What’s your plan for the holidays? Have you gotten most of it done yet, or are you like me, dragging your feet and feeling overwhelmed? Let me know how you cope with the “stress of the season” in the comments below.
Are you waiting for your life to be perfect? How about those 15 or so pounds you want to lose? Are you waiting to lose them before you do something that you really want to do? Or maybe you’re waiting until you save up the money to “fix up your house” before you have company over?
Thinking like this will do a couple of things. First of all, it will prevent you from enjoying yourself and trying new things. No one else will notice those extra pounds, and besides, if someone does, you probably don’t want to have anything to do with that person anyway. Secondly, most people won’t judge you on your house. If you’ve ever noticed, other people are in the process of saving up for some new things, also.
Joy should be found in the experience of living life. It doesn’t come from everything being perfect. Some of the best meals can be served along with walls that need to be painted and floors that need refurnishing. Those “things” don’t really matter. How you treat others is what matters. While I understand that what we see on social media gives most of us the impression that everyone else lives a “perfect” life, remember that most of those pictures are posed in a certain way so that we only see the “best”, and not the rest. People accentuate the positive and hide the negative.
I’ve talked before about how I find joy in the little things. The sunrises, sunsets, flowers, cold crisp air of fall. Nature brings me joy nearly every day. A positive outlook helps me find my joy. Look for the good in life and it suddenly appears. Even the worst day has something good in it, even if it’s a good cup of coffee. Look for the joy, and it will be there. I promise!
Since I really didn’t do so well on my November goals, I’m kind of stymied about setting goals for December. Maybe they should be just get through the month? December can be such a fraught time of year it would be easy to simply say that making it through the month would be a worthy goal. However, I do want to accomplish more than just that.
So, one goal is that I did join a writing group, so I’ll be needing to make sure that I write for my assignment, so that is a goal. Another goal is that I want to work on beginning to get my business set up, so I’ll be continuing with that, also.
As far as the big holiday, I really want to get my gifts bought and wrapped by December 15th this year. And, my final goal for December is that I want to get my act together so that I can go into 2018 with a fresh new outlook along was some healthy new habits. I’ll let you know more about the specifics as December moves forward.
What are your goals for December? Share them in the comments, and we can encourage each other as the month rolls on.
There are some days that just scream out for motivational quotes. I don’t know about you, but usually those days land on Mondays. So, here are some quotes for the start of the week. Enjoy, and I hope they help!
I can get too caught up in the negativity of life, so in order to help myself, and also to help others who may have this problem, I thought that I would devote my post today to happiness quotes. After all, we all need reminders that it’s not only negativity out there.
Since I’ve been organizing and giving “stuff” away, I thought that I’d let you in on a secret. Did you know that there is a joy to be found from having your house organized? I know, it sounds too good to be true, right? However, it is in fact, true. Since part of my new plan for life includes such things as: weekly meal planning, including shopping lists; filing paperwork as I open the mail (whoever even heard of that?); keeping my closets in the same organized way as I made them; and most of all, avoiding putting “stuff” on my dining room table, life is actually more pleasant. I don’t feel overwhelmed all the time. Imagine that??
So, while I have some way to go, my house is on its way to becoming a pleasant place. The best thing is, it’s not as stress-producing as it used to be. I don’t feel as “out-of-control” as I did before, and I’m a happier person. Apparently, disarray does me no good. And, believe it or not, I am still a creative person. As a matter of fact, I feel even more creative, since it takes less time to clean when you don’t have to move all the piles of “stuff” before you clean. I can see that being organized is indeed a good thing!