Are you waiting for your life to be perfect? How about those 15 or so pounds you want to lose? Are you waiting to lose them before you do something that you really want to do? Or maybe you’re waiting until you save up the money to “fix up your house” before you have company over?
Thinking like this will do a couple of things. First of all, it will prevent you from enjoying yourself and trying new things. No one else will notice those extra pounds, and besides, if someone does, you probably don’t want to have anything to do with that person anyway. Secondly, most people won’t judge you on your house. If you’ve ever noticed, other people are in the process of saving up for some new things, also.
Joy should be found in the experience of living life. It doesn’t come from everything being perfect. Some of the best meals can be served along with walls that need to be painted and floors that need refurnishing. Those “things” don’t really matter. How you treat others is what matters. While I understand that what we see on social media gives most of us the impression that everyone else lives a “perfect” life, remember that most of those pictures are posed in a certain way so that we only see the “best”, and not the rest. People accentuate the positive and hide the negative.
I’ve talked before about how I find joy in the little things. The sunrises, sunsets, flowers, cold crisp air of fall. Nature brings me joy nearly every day. A positive outlook helps me find my joy. Look for the good in life and it suddenly appears. Even the worst day has something good in it, even if it’s a good cup of coffee. Look for the joy, and it will be there. I promise!